Meeting Report for 9 June 2014

wordle_20140609Written by Tracey

Introductions

Swarajit, current president of Bloomsbury Speakers, started the meeting by extolling the benefits of public speaking. He used the analogy of playing the piano to emphasise the importance of practising in front of others for maximum gain.

Swarajit then introduced the evening’s toastmaster, Ahmed.  Ahmed introduced his role and explained the importance of supporting people entering the stage by clapping enthusiastically. He introduced his theme for the night which was “what is your ultimate vacation?” he provided a response for all speakers and functionaries on this theme.

Sarah fulfilled the time keeper role, explaining her responsibilities and the importance of completing speeches punctually. She demonstrated the use of the lights signalling the timings for each speaker.

Ahmed then introduced Renars, the grammarian for the evening. His word of the day was “anticipate”, which means to expect or wait on something to happen.

Prepared speeches

The first prepared speech was an icebreaker delivered by Emma entitled “3 Steps to Success: How Passion and Drive Got Me Here”. She illuminated us with her rags-to-riches tale from being a college dropout, claiming state benefits, to a media mogul managing her own radio show and DJing for prestigious companies like the BBC.

The second speaker, Egor, on his speech No. 2 entitled “Ethics for Dummies” informed the audience on the philosophy of ethics.  He spoke about ways to live an ethical life, and the best methods to understand morality and answer moral questions.

Rufina, the third speaker, delivered her No. 10 speech about ‘unforgiveness’.  Rufina’s speech was about the benefits of forgiveness and how to forgive others. She used a personal anecdote about a close friend with whom she’d had a disagreement. Rufina explained how forgiving her friend had helped her to move on.

The final speaker was Jo, delivering an advanced speech called “Let’s Outsmart Ourselves”. Her speech focused on procrastination, and how to manage this weakness through delayed gratification. Jo cited research on college students to support her argument.

Evaluations

Bronia evaluated Emma’s icebreaker speech, on her steps to success. She commended the structure of her speech, her elocution and engaging delivery. Bronia noticed that Emma’s enthusiasm decreased towards the end of her speech, and gave advice on how to sustain the speech’s momentum.

Hari evaluated Egor’s No. 2 speech, praising his ability to use lots of facts to support his message. He felt the speech was very informative, fulfilling the objectives of the No. 2 speech to organise and inform. Hari recommended that Egor improve his voice projection and volume for future speeches.

Peter evaluated Rufina’s speech, and started by commending it’s content, structure and delivery.  He noted that Rufina projected her voice well, and offered inspirational advice.

Carrie evaluated Jo’s advanced speech.  She praised her choice of subject, which the audience could easily identify with. She also commended Jo’s use of props, and her useful advice which people could benefit from.

Table topics

Rebecca, the table topics master continued the meeting’s theme by inviting several members to give impromptu speeches about their thoughts and experiences on holidays, including:

  • Hari, who was asked what environmental considerations he makes when choosing a holiday destination;
  • Renars, who was asked whether he was “a folder or a tosser” when packing holiday clothes;
  • Femi, who was asked if he preferred the experience of leaving home or returning from a holiday;
  • Faith-Rose, who was asked if she preferred holidays with friends or family; and
  • James, who was asked what type of accommodation he prefers on holiday.

Tracey, the table topics evaluator, gave a balanced and encouraging evaluation of all the speakers. She commented on the bravery of the first-time guest speakers delivering topics, and the high standard of all the responses.

Awards

Closing the meeting, president Swarajit handed out the awards, including those based on the audience votes:

  • Emma was recognised with an icebreaker ribbon for her maiden speech
  • Rufina was awarded a Competent Communicator ribbon for completing her 10th speech
  • Best Table Topic Speaker was awarded to James
  • Best Evaluator was awarded to Carrie
  • Best Prepared Speech was awarded to Jo

Next Meeting

Our next meeting is on Monday, 23rd June at the usual venue: upstairs at The Clerk & Well, 156 Clerkenwell Road, London, EC1R 5DU.

Meeting Report for 19 May 2014

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Written by Svetlana

Introductions

Our President Swarajit opened the meeting by giving a concise description of what Toastmasters is about and how it can help build confidence in public speaking and leadership skills. He spoke about his very recent experience of interaction with prominent politician’s office, from which he learnt just how important it was for them to be able to communicate their messages in a concise and persuasive manner that connects with their audience – just what the Toastmasters is about. Therefore, he encouraged the members and guests to take advantage of their meetings, roles, and speech projects.

After that, Swarajit introduced the evening’s Toastmaster Kate. He said Kate was an excellent example of a member who has been moving from strength to strength as a speaker, and he was convinced that the meeting would be in good hands with Kate as Toastmaster. Kate gave a brief overview of the agenda and introduced the theme of the day, “Which TV programmes and box sets do you like?” Her own favourite programmes are Fresh Meat and Peep Show, which are packed with situational comedy.

Kate then introduced the functionaries who were going to assist her that evening:

  • Rebecca, the Grammarian [Rebecca’s favourite TV programme is Off Their Rockers where old people play funny tricks on the public. It makes her cry with laughter every time!]. Rebecca explained her function as a Grammarian, that is, to watch everyone’s grammar and style and at the end of the meeting provide an evaluation of the language usage by speakers, point out mistakes and good figures of speech. She offered the word of the evening “Nefarious”, which is an adjective (typically of an action or activity, meaning “wicked or criminal”), and encouraged all speakers to use it in their speeches.
  • Egor, the Timekeeper [Egor advised everyone to befriend YouTube for virtually any need or interest]. Egor explained his role and encouraged the audience to be aware of the time requirements for speeches as being able to deliver a speech within a given time slot was an important skill for a proficient public speaker.

Prepared speeches

With an Icebreaker speech entitled “How I Found My Passion in Life”, Jon [whose favourite TV series is How I Met Your Mother, an hilarious take on the search for love and a great escape from the stresses of daily life] introduced himself to the club. Finding his passion in life meant looking within for answers to multiple questions, and it was also about making a space in his life where he could actually pursue that passion, enjoy every moment of travelling, having life experiences, personal discoveries, and sharing them with people via blogs and social networks.

Our second speaker Helen’s No. 6 speech “Switch Off and Let Go” related a story of her weekend journey to the countryside with her boyfriend where their GPS devices failed them. They were compelled “to switch off and let go” and to look around, take in the beauty and a multitude of events happening around them every second, the picturesque views, the cattle, the big blue and green blurb of nature, which kept changing their sensations from fear to enchantment.

Our third speaker Samuel delivered his No. 10 Speech “Just Do It”. He succeeded in inspiring the audience with his own personal story of how important it was to connect the intellectual knowledge and aspiration to do something good and important for people and for oneself through stepping out of one’s comfort zone and “just doing it” whether small or big, and how that could change one’s whole perception of life, making it more happy and fulfilling.

Our fourth speaker Ahmed gave his No. 10 speech entitled “Work-Life Balance” [Ahmed’s favourite programme is Breaking Bad, a brilliant, compelling series]. Ahmed gave a fascinating speech with a valuable, emotionally charged and enthusiastic message about the need to bear in mind that time flies and before you know it you will be fifty-five, no matter how far the age resonates in your mind when you are twenty or thirty. His advice was to never postpone the life goals that are important to you, but find a possibility to pursue them along with career goals. For him and his wife, bringing up four children meant a lot in establishing and maintaining the work-life balance so far.

Michelle [whose favourite TV programme at the moment is Homeland because she finds it gripping and exciting] then hosted the guest introductions, which put them at ease and showed how important guests are for any Toastmasters club, including Bloomsbury Speakers.

Evaluations

Ash [whose penchant for American series Revenge persists, despite the bad storylines and wooden acting] evaluated Jon’s Icebreaker speech in her very methodical and thorough way. She commended Jon for producing a speech which revealed an experienced storyteller. The performance was brave, resourceful, engaging, with good portion of humour and a lot of really interesting facts from his personal story of finding his passion in life, which was travelling and exploration of the world, making friends and sharing his discoveries with people.

Svetlana [who likes documentaries in general, but her favourite programme is Deal Or No Deal, where Noel Edmonds looks like everyone’s family member] evaluated Helen’s No. 6 speech “Switch Off and Let Go”, pointing out that Helen was a highly skilled speaker. Her speech swept the audience away and took them onto a 4-D journey to the countryside where her GPS failed and they had to find their way without it. With a strong stage presence, use of changing facial expressions and a bit of dance, Helen produced a performance about the beauty of nature and human behaviour, using vocal variety, volume, pitch, and pauses.

Jo [whose favourite programmes are Sunday night period dramas like Downton Abbey or Mr Selfridge to round off the weekend] evaluated Samuel’s No. 10 speech “Just Do It” with a number of commendations, such as his stage presence, which was truly Sam’s forte. He succeeded in inspiring the audience with his own personal story of how important it was to connect the intellectual knowledge and aspiration to do something good.

Glen [who is currently addicted to Game of Thrones and loves it because the characters are so compelling and it always manages to shock and surprise him] evaluated Ahmed’s No. 10 speech “Work-Life Balance”, which was a milestone in the Competent Communication programme. Glen commended Ahmed, who held a firm grip on everyone’s attention from the beginning to the end of his speech, which is truly a sign of a master speaker. It was amazing how he managed to make a long story of his life, his experience of family, parenthood, and work so concise that he not only did not go beyond his time limit but was the only speaker of the day who did not reach the minimum amount of time expected. In fact, this became grounds for one important recommendation, which was to fill up his time slot and give the audience a few more moments of the energising experience, which he truly is able to deliver as a highly skilled speaker.

Table Topics

The Table Topics section was chaired by Peter [whose favourite TV programmes are nature documentaries] who explained the “rules of the game” as being able to think on your feet and produce a speech with the beginning, the middle and the end. He asked the table topic speakers various questions, which they never heard before.

Guest Kal had the question: In the “The Lord of Flies” a book written by William Golding in 1954, a group of school children were stranded on an uninhabited island after a plane crash. You are the oldest child and the younger children are looking to you for guidance. What would your objective/s be to organise this motley crew?  Kal said he would organise the group as a team, give each and every one moral support and assign responsibilities for certain functions that would help them survive, such as building and maintaining shelter, finding food, water, vigilance and security against wild animals, search for help, etc.

Another guest, Raj had the question: In the X-Men film series, certain people in world have developed some extraordinary abilities and powers through genetic mutation. Assume you have become a mutant, what sort of abilities would you like to have and why? Raj thought the biggest mutants on earth were humans, so our abilities as humans make us different from the rest of animals.

Saija had the question: In “The War Of Worlds”, a science fiction novel written by H.G. Wells, the world was invaded by nefarious extra-terrestrial race from Mars. You live in a tiny village by the Essex coast, you see one of these gigantic creatures coming towards your village, what would you do? Saija gave the most simple and ingenuous answer, that after analysing the situation she would offer them a cup of English tea and show them that she and her village fellowmen were very friendly and ready to make friends with extra-terrestrials. It would, hopefully, win them over.

Graeme discussed the statement, “all animals are created equal, but some are created more equal than others”, a famous quote from the book “Animal Farm” by George Orwell. Graeme put himself in the place of the animals that had taken over the farm and ousted their cruel human masters.

Rufina had the question: In Hamlet, Polonius gave some his son Laertes some fatherly advice when he was going to France to study for example: ‘Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice’; and ‘Take each man’s censure, but reserve thy judgement’. What wise wisdom would you give your child if they were going abroad to study? If Rufina was to send her daughter to France to study, which was actually a pretty realistic scenario in her life, she would bear it in mind that children do not listen to lecturing and do whatever they want to have as much fun as possible. Therefore, she would focus on convincing her child to study while she is having fun in France.

Bronia [who finds House of Cards fascinating because it’s like a gigantic chess game, but is thankful it is not on TV so she doesn’t have to switch it on… when she does watch TV though she watches Al Jazeera, which is absolutely fantastic] evaluated the Topics session by commending all who took part for rising to the challenge, being very natural, resourceful, and creative delivering with good energy and humour. Her main recommendation was to have more eye contact, body language and to make better use of the stage, not to stay too close to the bar because we all can do that downstairs after the club meeting.

General Evaluation

After Grammarian Rebecca’s detailed report on the English language use and the use of the word of the day “Nefarious” by the evening’s speakers, Doug (visiting from Angel Speakers) kindly stepped in to provide the General Evaluation for the meeting.

He started with a very high commendation and congratulated the President, the functionaries, and members on having the reputation of the best club in London. He certainly noticed how well the club meeting was organised, with all the relevant notifications sent out prior to the meeting, the meeting itself where assigned roles were fulfilled efficiently, the environment was supportive, the atmosphere was fun, which explained the reputation and the overall very dynamic and seamless flow of the meeting. He pointed out that Grammarian’s report was thorough, contained a lot of valuable points for speakers, was delivered with pleasant charm and smile; he recommended Rebecca to use cards instead of paper notes next time. Further on, Doug commended Egor, the Timekeeper, who had several short outings each time revealing more of his confidence and character, which showed it fact how important the role of the Timekeeper is. He commended the evaluators for their meaningful and constructive evaluation reports and provided some tips to everyone.

Awards

Swarajit brought the meeting to a close by handing out the awards:

  • The Icebreaker ribbon went to Jon
  • A special trophy was presented to Janet who placed third in the UK & Ireland final of the International Speech Contest
  • The Half Competent Communicator ribbon for completing five of the 10 speeches went to Helen
  • The Competent Communicator ribbons for completing ten out of ten speeches went to Ahmed and Samuel
  • Best evaluator went to Glen
  • Best table topic went to Saija
  • Best speaker went to Ahmed

Next meeting

Our next regular meeting will be held on Monday, 9th June upstairs at The Clerk & Well pub, 156 Clerkenwell Road, EC1R 5DU. Doors open at 6:30pm.

Meeting Report for 12 May 2014

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Introductions

Swarajit, our president, opened the meeting with cheer and enthusiasm, reminding everyone that Toastmasters is a safe place to develop our speaking skills. We practice and get better by learning from our mistakes based on constructive feedback. An example of the support in Toastmasters became even more evident recently when one of our members, Janet, took part in the UK & Ireland International Speech contest. She was given advice, tips and support by experienced members from ours and other Toastmasters clubs and she truly aced it in the competition by placing third overall. 

Swarajit then went on to introduce the toastmaster for the evening, Helen. After running through the agenda for the meeting, Helen introduced her theme “What is your favourite mode of transportation – real or fictional?” with each participant being introduced with their response. She then introduced her supporting functionaries, the Timekeeper and Grammarian.

Michelle, the timekeeper, explained the timings for the programme and demonstrated the use of the lights to signal these timings to the speakers. Nathaniel, the Grammarian, introduced the word of the day, “’ineffable” which means too great or extreme to be expressed or described in words.

Prepared Speeches

The first prepared speech, “Lessons Learnt from Mars the Prince of Tashkent” was a No. 3 speech by Svetlana. In reality it was lessons learnt from her once tiny, furry, shy cat found at a traffic light. As the cat became part of the family, he saw Svetlana as the strict one, her son the fight mate and her daughter the lover. Although he disappeared into thin air when he got older, they all learnt the art of ‘verbal communication without saying a word’.  

The second speaker, Peter, on his speech No. 7 “Bee a pain” kept us all captivated with the lifestyle of bees, which are categorised into three types. The queen bee is the sole source of replacement bees; worker bees keep the queen fed and the hive taken care off and the drones are solely for mating with the queen. The bee population has declined by fifty per cent in the last twenty years due to parasites, destroyed habitats and deadly pesticides. Peter urged us all to stand up and help protect these wonderful creatures.

The third speaker, Carrie, on her No. 8 speech shared her experience of three properties she’d rented in London.   The first property in Oval, which was 2 minutes away from Zone 2, had lovely housemates, however the area was noisy and housemates got messy. Having moved to a second property in Brixton which was clean and tidy yet turned out to be in a dodgy area forced her on to her third breath-taking property in Clapham. The extortionate rent for the Clapham property forced her to make the decision to find a place she could really call ‘Home’.

Bronia, the final speaker on her No.9 speech entitled “Join our Clan” shared her bewilderment on how uninspired kids are in society today. They feel unprepared for life, uncompromising and uninspired, which is likely to spill into adulthood. However, a group of theatre specialists have come together to change the status quo by using the theatre production to help steer these kids back on the right track.  Bronia appealed to everyone to support this well tried and tested venture because, as the saying goes, “the greatest creations comes from the craziest ideas”.

Evaluations

Ahmed evaluated Svetlana’s speech on lessons learnt from her cat. He commended her on a credible speech, oozing with sincerity and interjection of humour. It was entertaining   speech with vivid description, however areas to work on included having a clear structure and less use of notes.

Ash evaluated Peter’s No. 7 speech by firstly commending him on a relaxed poise and friendly body language. The speech was very informative, engaging and included lots of eye contact. Ash’s recommendation to Peter was to use cue cards where needed and to keep within the given time.

James in evaluating Carrie’s No.8 speech started by commending her on the good use of props to help the audience envision her message, and choosing a topic the audience could relate to. He mentioned Carrie could have used even more props to show the negative side of the properties as well and been mindful of the timing.

Egor evaluated Bronia’s No.9 speech, firstly by commending her natural, free and pleasant voice that resounded everywhere in the room. She’d used nice choice of colourful language, good facial expressions and showed great passion about her subject. Bronia could however improve on the structure of her speech and use a few more pauses.

Table Topics

Rufina the Table Topicsmaster introduced her theme for the evening in relation to the toastmaster’s theme of transport.

  • Sinead was asked “why is a donkey a better mode of transport than a bus?” Sinead believed the donkey would be more reliable during rush hour, elegant and had better personalities than bus drivers.
  • Guest David was asked “If you were given the choice to travel in a hot air balloon over any city, where would it be?” David said it would be Florianópolis in Brazil because it’s the most indescribable island.
  • Faith-Rose was asked “You’ve been tasked to give London’s buses a new look by changing the colour to green, why would you?” Faith-Rose said that in the light of everyone going green it seems the right thing to do to help save the planet!
  • Rebecca was asked “you are in competition with 10 other people to win a magic carpet, why should you win?” Rebecca answered that, given she does not like heights, she would change the prize by inviting Brad Pitt to dinner instead.
  • Julia was asked “The tube is congested, cycling is unsafe and there’s too much traffic on the road, please offer an alternative solution”. Julia said it would be her majestic horse that can make you forget all your troubles.
  • Marieandy was asked “why should we switch to electric cars?” She simply said it will reduce pollution, decrease illness and stop conflict over oil internationally.

Femi, the Table Topics Evaluator gave a super-charged, entertaining and thorough evaluation to every participating speaker. The commendations given as a whole were on speakers’ confident stance, relaxed style and injections of humour.

Stand-in general evaluator Peter L then evaluated the meeting as a whole, including those who were yet to be evaluated.

Awards

Closing the meeting, the president Swarajit handed out the awards based on the audience votes:

  • Best Table Topic Speaker was awarded to Sinead
  • Best Evaluator was awarded to Femi
  • Best Prepared Speech was awarded to Carrie
  • The President’s discretionary award went to Helen on her role as Toastmaster.

Next Meeting

Our next meeting is on Monday, 19th March in the normal venue: upstairs at the Clerk & Well, 156 Clerkenwell Road, London, EC1R 5DU.

Meeting Report for 28 April 2014

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Introductions

Our president Swarajit opened the meeting with a salute to Darren LaCroix, 2001 World Champion of Public Speaking. Swarajit shared a couple of lessons he had taken away from a recent workshop with Darren:

  • Never turn down stage time; at worst you will make mistakes, but you’ll learn from them.
  • No International Speech Contest winner has done it alone, they all had coaching in order to hone their speeches – a mentor can make all the difference and there are experienced speakers at Bloomsbury Speakers to step into that role.

Swarajit then passed the baton to Peter, our Toastmaster for the evening. To most, being shipwrecked would a traumatic experience but Peter would like nothing better than being cast away, and this was his theme for the evening. Peter talked us through the programme and introduced us to tonight’s helpers:

  • Rebecca, our timekeeper introduced the importance of the role and efficiently ensured we kept to schedule, even more important this evening given the imminent tube strike.
  • Bronia, our grammarian for the night decided to shake things up a bit – gone was the usual word of the evening for a focus on rhetoric devices. Bronia explained the importance of metaphors and similies for good communication and presenting complex ideas.

Prepared Speeches

Our icebreaker this evening was confidently delivered by Emily, in her speech entitled ‘The Story of My Life’. Throughout the speech we were taken on a musical journey from her teenage years wearing fishnets and stalking band members in Camden Town to the jazz and blues scene in New Orleans later on. We learnt that Emily may not be able to sell a rubber, but as a media planner she’d realised her dream of working in advertising.

Next up was Michelle, delivering her number 2 talk ‘The Benefits of Yoga’ and her speech did exactly what it said on the tin. In a passionate delivery, Michelle informatively discussed the different types of Yoga and how incorporating Yoga into our daily lives can improve our posture, strength, sleep quality and reduce tension.

In his second prepared speech, James examined ‘why some succeed while others fail’. James discussed the research of Malcolm Gladwell and how this showed that, while luck and opportunity may have a bearing, an elite ice hockey player must also put in hard work in order to be successful. James ended his speech by relating this research nicely with the fact that we are all open to the opportunities of life in London and we can all put in the hard work by taking decisive action to become a good public speaker.

While many of us might be tuning in to find out how Binky is coping on Made in Chelsea, Damien proved to be a more discerning TV viewer. In his  6th talk ‘Two Time Capsules’, Damien discussed two documentaries he’d watched recently and how these left an impression on him. The first discussed the oldest cave paintings known to man and how one artist’s drawings and another artist’s drawings were painted 5,000 years apart. The second considered how we can inform future generations about nuclear waste, but will our signs still be there in 100,000 years and will they even be understood?

Evaluations

Kate was very impressed by the confident delivery given by Emily and her “excellent use of hand gestures”. Kate recommended that Emily should slow down as there were some little gems we would have liked time to fully absorb.

Glen evaluated Michelle and thought there was a huge amount to like. He commended her firm stance and personality, her passion for the subject and preparation. Glen would have liked more in the way of signposting and a little more vocal variety but he loved the fact Michelle brought a personal story to life.

Henry evaluated James and found his delivery sincere. James lost his train of thought at the beginning but recovered from this well – a lesson to us all. Henry commended his “incredible hand gestures to reinforce his points” and found it was an impressive delivery without notes, especially given the complex subject matter.

Jo, in evaluating Damien commended his relaxed and strong stance and confident eye contact with the room. Ums and ahs were very few and far between and, given the deep and philosophical nature, this was well controlled. Jo felt it was a difficult subject in order to meet the vocal variety criteria and maybe something less complex might have worked better but Damien did a great job with a challenging topic.

Table Topics

Ahmed our table topics master was hot on the heels of tonight’s theme – survival – and there was no shortage of volunteers:

Paula was asked what steps she’d take to survive on a desert island and convinced us this would be easy once she had made a fishing rod, relishing the opportunity to feast on a healthy diet of fresh fish and an abundance of fruit and exercise.

Julia chose her husband as her ideal island companion as he would help around the island, develop exercise plans and they could spend romantic evenings together. He is a great singer and could serenade her and she could teach him to dance.

Jon was asked what superpower he’d want if he were lost in the jungle and chose x-ray vision to see through the bushes and relax in his underground camp while still knowing what was going on above him.

Bjorn was asked what had been the best survival film he’d seen and why. He chose MacGyver as he would like to be lost with lots of sexy people.

Ash considered whether she’d prefer to travel through the desert by jeep or camel. Inspired by the book The Alchemist, Ash decided she would turn down the easy option of the jeep in favour of a camel. She felt an epic journey demanded an epic mode of transport on a journey of self-fulfilment.

Emma was asked to sell to us the benefits of living on a desert island. Healthy living and the opportunity to come and go as one pleased came top of the list for Emma, followed closely by a great tan.

Our table topics session was evaluated by Nazia; in particular, she pointed out that a great compliment was paid during the session as reference was made to other speakers throughout the evening.

Closing and awards

  • Icebreaker award – went to Emily for her maiden speech
  • Best speaker – James proved to be successful on the night
  • Best evaluator – this went to Glen, a regular winner of this accolade
  • Best table topic – went to Paula for her healthy cast away lifestyle
  • President’s award – this went to Kerstin, visiting from Clerkenwell Speakers, for her sterling efforts stepping in last minute as the general evaluator – and especially well done for her first ever evaluation!

Next Meeting

Our next regular meeting will be held on Monday, 12th May in our usual location – upstairs at The Clerk & Well pub, 156 Clerkenwell Road, EC1R 5DU. Doors open at 6:30 for a prompt 6:45 start.

Meeting Report for 14 April 2014

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Written by Rufina

Introductions

Our President Swarajit – opened the meeting by quoting from former World Champion of Public Speaking Darren LaCroix who, in the style of Tony Blair, gave the three most important factors in becoming a world class speaker as stage time, stage time and stage time!

Swarajit then introduced Stella, who was the evening’s Toastmaster. Stella, after running through the agenda for the meeting, introduced her theme “Life is a Circus”, asking every participant “If you were asked to join the circus, would you do so, and why”? She then introduced her supporting functionaries, the Timekeeper and Grammarian.

Michelle, the timekeeper, explained the timings for the programme and demonstrated the use of the lights to signal these timings to the speakers.

On to the next functionary, the Grammarian Jo introduced the word of the day, “Innocuous” which means not harmful or offensive.

Prepared Speeches

The first speech “The Ultimate Accessory” was a No. 2 speech by Faith-Rose, in which she shared with us the manufacturing process, the practice of wearing hats and what characteristics they exhibit. Faith-Rose’s hats compromised a vision, the moment where two cultures (Ghanaian and Malawian) are infused and lastly the feeling of nostalgia which symbolises happiness. To give us a clearer picture, Faith-Rose exhibited three different, stunning hats pressing on us to forget the shoes – it’s all about the hats!

On to the second speaker and Rebecca, with a No. 2 speech entitled “Just My Cup of Tea”, took us back to her childhood where she’d earned the right to be the “best tea maker” in the family and neighbourhood.  Rebecca let us into her three-part secret of obtaining the perfect cup of tea: the context, the content and lastly the process of making it. The tea goes in first before the milk and not the other way round.

The third speaker was Ash with a No. 3 speech called “Taking Love Offline”, where she revealed intriguing information about how dating has transformed from traditional meetings to 21st century online dating. With over half of singletons in London choosing online dating on the 4,100 dating websites in the UK, the deception is endless and everyone is judged by their looks rather than common interests, dislikes and aspirations. The moral is that online dating deprive us of the organic romance with physical people by chasing unrealistic profiles.

Peter, the final speaker with his No. 6 speech entitled “Who is Your Voice?”, reconnected us back to an amazing tool in our body – the voice. Without it we cannot speak nor engage in public speaking. Peter, demonstrating with his own silky tones, informed us that the voice is a machine that needs air, alignment and algorithm of the throat because the wrong posture affects how our voice projects a message. A simple exercise for the voice is to breathe in deeply, slowly release the air and relax.

Evaluations

Ahmed evaluated Faith-Rose’s speech about the “ultimate accessory”. He commended the use of props in a number two speech which added credibility and a sincere touch to it. She was not fazed by the use of props but was confident and the delivery was well executed.  However, Ahmed felt that Faith-Rose could improve on her transitions and use of phrases.

James evaluated Rebecca’s No. 2 speech. He commended her on a very clear and structured speech. It showed her background and the impact it has made on her life while engaging the audience. He recommended combing two stages into one and practice to help with the timing.

Tracey evaluated Ash’s speech on online dating. She commended Ash on a well delivered and confident speech with no signs of nervousness and interjection of humour.  She recommended Ash did not need the notes in her hands and could improve on the speech organisation but, all in all, met her objectives.

Rufina evaluated Peter’s No. 6 speech. She felt he started off with a great opening by using a rhetorical question.  Peter had a well projected voice, relaxed and poised; however some of the action could have been demonstrated to enforce the message. Overall, it was well researched and engaging speech.

Table Topics

Carrie was the topicsmaster with a theme based on the stress of everyday life.

  • Emily was asked to describe a healthy work life balance in London – she responded that everyone needs to find what works for them and taking a break from work sometimes.
  • Jon was asked if he believes in therapy – he said there is no right or wrong answer, but he likes to work and talk to friends and strangers about his worries.
  • Emma was asked, what do you do to combat stress? She testified to being a walking self-help book from trying therapy to acupuncture and yoga, which is the best.
  • Ahmed pondered what in life makes one happy? There is no constant happiness, he said, but a mixture of fun times and hardship.
  • Robert considered whether we should avoid stressful activities or just accept them. Work hard, he responded – if you go through stress or make mistakes, learn from them. Take a 30-minute break, or a shot of whisky!
  • Marcella was asked to discuss the statement, when it comes to the hard times in life all we need is love. She concurred by saying love yourself, work hard, and take a break in the countryside like she does.

Henry, the table topics evaluator, opened by congratulating each topics participant on their well delivered, engaging and sincere speeches from the heart – especially since they were all guests! Henry went on to give each speaker thorough commendations and recommendations for how they could perform even better next time.

Closing and Awards

Our very own Ratan was the General Evaluator tonight and he gave his assessment of all those participants who’d not previously been evaluated and also presented some great feedback for the club as a whole.

The president Swarajit then handed out the awards based on the audience votes:

  • Best Table Topic Speaker was awarded to Emma
  • Best Evaluator was awarded to Henry
  • Best Prepared Speech was awarded to Ash

The President’s discretionary award went to Michelle for her role as timekeeper for the first time.

Next Meeting

Our next regular meeting is Monday, 28th April in the normal venue: upstairs at The Clerk & Well, 156 Clerkenwell Road, London, EC1R 5DU.